Hey there folks...
Today is Friday and I definitely have something special in store for you..!!!
Today.. we have a guest post by one of the most brilliant bloggers in the blogosphere that I have come across so far.
Sagittarius...!!! that's her sun sign but you know that when you see the strong impression she leaves on you once you visit her blog.
A friend...!!! If you thought that she is all work and no play.. you got her wrong because she is one of the most fun loving person I have come across.
Known for speaking her heart out come what may, she doesn't believe nor likes Beating around the bush to tell what she feels..for in her own words " she likes what she does and she does what she likes" and in fact she IS one of the primary reason that inspired me to start my blog..!!
She cried when Sir Sarcasm died.. She had her word when the War broke in the blog world and what makes her stand out is her strong faith in herself . Her blog is called THE BLUNT BLOG and by now you would have guessed it why..!!
Friends, if you haven't visited her blog... waste no second... for you have really missed something.. for its my privilege to have her write the FIRST EVER GUEST POST at THE DEVIL'S WORKSHOP..!!!
LADIES AND GENTLEMEN, BOYS AND GIRLS...
PRESENTING BEFORE YOU..
CHINTAN the blunt blog GUPTA..!!!!!
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With that said...Over to you Chintan :)
You know you are in good company when you read a mature article such as this. I am someone who is completely against abortion, not that I have the right to take decisions about everyone’s life, but I would love to be able to do so and set few things straight. Those of you, who are regular readers,
ah who am I kidding, know I write about strong subjects related to women, men, sex, relationships. Some time back I read about contraceptives and wrote this post. However, today when I read Prashanth’s blog, I thought this needs to be addressed again. Since, I owed a guest post to Prithvi, I thought why not take this subject and mention few of the cases I know of and have a blunt discussion about it?
Abortion, the movies show, our society reflects and China a whole nation surviving on, the very much cruel example of kill-that-unwanted-child. If you are sixteen and pregnant, you better abort, some girls can cope; some cannot, but that itself is a tender age for abortion. I bluntly blame men for this! I do. It’s your fluid that is ejected by you however resides in our body and gets us pregnant. What follows next is the confusion, if you ought to deliver the child or let it bleed through the vagina for a month or so? Yes, that is what happens when a woman aborts the child not always though. As per this website, a woman may bleed up to a month and this is not even listed in serious side effects! I find this ridiculous; can a man imagine himself bleeding from his penis for a month for not accepting a child? I doubt. Some of you male readers may stop reading at this point. Have you smelled the abortion blood? If you have not, maybe you should, just to get a feel how your woman who went through the trauma of the child that she could not accept. Ah well, what do you know, some of the writers even call us the child vending machines.
Abortion may have some serious physical side effects and some severe emotional side effects as well. I come from a Punjabi family, where lands and farms have very special meaning. I am much loved, very much spoiled however I wouldn’t deny how the families do need a son. I love my brother much, but I know my mom aborted too. One time, she aborted a son, because my parents were not ready. I do think, it was the right decision, but because of abortion, my mom developed cysts and had to remove her uterus during menopause days. We are a happy family today, but my mom did have some depressing phases, I cannot say for sure if it all happened because of abortion but it happened and she would share how she didn’t want to abort. One of my aunts aborted a girl child and she saw the child. She pledged not to try no more and she did not care to have a son. She has two lovely daughters and she is happy today.
I read someone’s comment on Prashanth’s post that, these days abortion is safe. How much ever safe, abortion be, it does affect the woman in question. Side effects can never be ignored. Some women may even develop suicidal tendencies and men do not think twice before labelling it as atrocious behaviour. As a man, you need to understand, woman’s body, emotionally and physically meant to reproduce, thus when she kills her child, she can feel how a part of her too died. You are not only asking your woman to kill the child, but also giving her a slow death and no I am not adding too many emotions to this post!
Now, if I look at it from a different perspective. I know a couple, who got pregnant. They were not planning, yet, they got pregnant. They unfortunately had muted the television when those mental advertisers were screaming condom conDOM CONDOM! She came and told everyone at work. She said, she isn’t ready, but they told the parents and thus they have to give birth! Well, what’s the point? Tomorrow, you might as well tell the child, we did not care to have you, but your grandparents insisted. Believe me, it affects the child! I have seen it happening how children get emotional about the whole thing and go in a denial. Another thing, you are not ready to be parents. You know when you are not. Thus better to let go, than to make that child and your family suffer. Men tend to dump the responsibilities on women, you do when you ask the woman to abort than taking responsibility of the act and the child. But, in some cases, even if it’s a financial issue, it’s better to not have the child, if you cannot do justice to his/her life.
I am completely against abortion, its best to take precaution and play it safe! However, do not dump the responsibility on women. The contraceptive pills have hundred side effects and you are only playing with fire. Condoms are the most effective way to prohibit un-necessary pregnancies. You want to enjoy the act, enjoy responsibly or else they may be baking some apple pies down the corner, you better have those and mind your own business!
Thanks a ton Chintan and to all of you who read this and truly appreciated this..!!!
God bless all of yo and have a lovely Weekend ahead...!!!
loads of love,